My Future Partner

Hmm...yesterday I involved in a serious topic discussion with my friend from India... that is about his future partner.
< My friend
>Me

Thu Sep 4 2008
(23:49:19) < salam
(23:49:40) > wa'alaikumsalam wrwb
(23:49:43) > hi
(23:49:51) > how are you?
(23:50:21) < Alhamdulillah i am fine
(23:50:24) < how abt u?
(23:52:09) > i'm fine too... thank you..
(23:52:15) > what are you doing now?
(23:52:47) < i am waiting for iftar
(23:53:21) < hey u look busy?
(23:53:41) > hmm not really...
(23:53:54) > iftar? what time is it there?
(23:54:59) < 18:51
(23:55:23) < we have 2 1/2 hours more
(23:55:39) > wooow... that's o long time...
(23:55:49) > thwn what time you got shahur?
(23:56:26) < 5:06
(23:56:56) > so you almost fasting in 15 hour?
(23:57:05) > then how you feel about it?
(23:57:42) < it is ok ,i am used to fast long time
(23:58:01) < Allah gives me power to fast long
(23:58:14) > Subhanallah...
(23:58:39) > where will you get iftar? in mosque?
(23:59:09) < yes
(23:59:23) < becoz i am still single and dont have time to cook

Fri Sep 5 2008
mawaddah_1985
(00:00:53) < :((
(00:01:32) > hmm... do not be sad...
(00:02:02) > so how your try to get a "partner"?
(00:03:35) < hehehhe
(00:03:41) < still dont have to try
(00:04:17) > why?
(00:05:15) < i think ,we dont know each other good
(00:05:35) > you true
(00:05:52) < i am doing my master in germany
(00:06:01) < i am writing my thesis now
(00:06:41) > hmm..so you will finish it before you try to find your partner?
(00:07:38) < yes
(00:07:53) < and i also dont want any german girl as my partner
(00:10:02) > hmmm then what your desire? you really have specific nationality of your partner?
(00:12:00) < no
(00:12:17) < i have no big requirment
(00:12:30) < just simple educated and religios girl
(00:13:21) > so, if you find an educated and religious german girl ... you'll be happy right?
(00:14:58) < i dont want to marry german
(00:17:00) > may i know why?
(00:17:19) < they r not religios
(00:17:39) < may i say u somthing,,but dont laugh
(00:21:19) > ok... i won't
(00:21:41) > what is that?
(00:22:33) < i want to marry a indonesian or malaysian girl
(00:23:42) < :">
(00:24:00) > wuhuuu...
(00:24:12) > why?
(00:24:32) < i tell u later
(00:24:39) > why not arabic, palestin, pakistan... etc which are moslems also?
(00:24:48) < hope u can chat latet insha Allah
(00:25:00) < now i have to leave for masjid
(00:25:15) > oke... i'll be waiting
(00:25:23) > so, happy iftar... :)
(00:26:08) < salam walekum
(00:26:17) > wa'alaikumsalam wr.wb


From above conversation, I summarize that he want a partner that have simple character that is "just simple educated and religios girl"
then he hope that partner is from Indonesia or Malaysia...

Hmm unfortunately we can't continue that discussion, so I can't get the reason why Indonesian or Malaysian??


But, the fact is that he really have a spesific character about his future partner.
Then how about me? I don't know yet...
Yes of course I want my future partner is a religious person, and also educated person... what more?? Must he is a good looked person, or rich person, or etc etc... I don't think so.

How about love?? must the person is a person who I can love him easily... or just enough with that the person is love me...

I know, the best choice is from Allah... My Lovely God who create Love itself... But how I can convinced myself that the choice is really the best choice from Allah...

Fiuhh...... I don't know yet....